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Coping up on Mid-life Crisis!

Somebody give us life.Agree?? We started to live life at a very early stage with nothing to think of.As time goes by, development and changes in life occurred, different stages of personality took place,physical, mental, emotional, social and in all aspects of our life. We encountered different problems, sorrows and happiness in life. But we,give our best foot forward and embrace and accept all this challenges whole-heartedly. Day by day different changes occured in our life and that changes helped us developed our personality up until we reached the so-called Mid-life. A stage of one's life where in, a person is in between...Moreover, during this stage more and more changes will happen to our life that may lead to something negative if we don't know how to handle all this changes, that is why, we tried to find a lot of ways on how to cope up this crisis or what we called- Mid-life Crisis.
There comes a time when a person realizes that he/she has passed the zenith of his life and is now on the downhill side. In fact, life has turned into something of a taboggan ride straight to the end. His/Her kids are way past the cute stage. His/Her job is a cul de sac off a deadend street in No-wheres-ville. Every weekday he/she goes to work in the morning and comes home in the evening and his/her weekends are all "honey do" weekends with a long list of chores. The family expenses suck up all the money so there is little left over for toys or recreation, and the kids' activities suck up all the spare time. All in all he has the life of a well-cared-for plough horse.
Then you begin to notice some changes. She get up in middle of the night to go to the bathroom, and you see her that she has not come to bed. You notice the computer is on in the den. When you walk in, your partner abruptly closes the browser window. Or maybe some Saturday afternoon you walk out his/her back door and your partner is standing out in the yard talking on his/her cell, but he/she says, "Talk to you later," and abruptly terminates the call when he/she sees you. Maybe heshe starts coming home later and later, or maybe he/she suddenly gives up beer and starts working out and doesn't even brag to you about it, or goes out and buys himself what he/she imagines are fancy things.
These may be the first warning signs of the onset of midlife crisis. It's time to take fast action, because they just might be about to do something really crazy. You better head this runaway train off at the pass before it jumps the track.

What To Do
Since your partner might snap any second there is really no time to lose.

Step 1: Is He/she Worth It?

First of all, you have to make a decision: is he/she worth keeping? To find out, ask yourself the following questions:

Will I miss that part of his/her income that I will lose if he/she leaves me?
If I take everything he/she has, will it be enough?
Will I miss our conversatons?
Will I miss his/her parenting abilities?
Will I miss his/her competancy in an emergency?
If you answered 'no' to question 1, 3, 4 or 5 or 'yes' to question 2, you might want to hire a private detective and a divorce attorney. Have your partner followed until he/she gives you grounds for divorce, then have the attorney milk him/her 'til he's/she's dry. The end.
If you answered 'yes' to question 1, 3, 4 or 5 or 'no' to question 2, you might be better off using one of the mid-life crisis countermeasures I describe below.

Step 2: Take Action

Plan A: Sex
Before an object reaches escape velocity, it has to overcome a lot of inertia. You may think your partner married you because he/she loves you, but in reality he/she married you because you were HOT - I mean HOT. You were so hot he/she was ready to give up his dreams, his freedom - anything if he/she could continue to have you. Deep inside, beneath layers of accumulated angst born of endless pointless tasks and disappointment, he/she still feels that way. Therefore, to leave you he must fully release himself from that part of him that still thinks he/she cannot live without you.

Never mind that gravity and babies have taken a toll on your body. It is really not about that. Wear something with nothing underneath, and let him/her find that out by surprise. Go shopping and greet him/her for wearing scanty sleepwear when he/she comes to bed. Once you get him/her there, see if he/she wants to try some things you haven't tried as a couple before. Be willing to do some things you may have shied away from. Encourage him/her to give you pleasure in ways he/she hasn't before as well. If he/she feels he/she is pleasing you it will renew a sense of purpose in his/her relationship with you.

His/her midlife crisis is telling him/her he/she must change his/her life because his/her life has grown intolerable. He/she has begun to feel he/she has nothing to lose, but he/she will keep some residual fear of the unknown. If you remind him/her why he married you in the first place and rekindle the fire, you will probably take away his reason for being restless, because great sex goes a long way toward making life tolerable.

The advantages to Plan A are that (1) it is inexpensive, (2) it could be fun and (3) you might just end up with a better marriage than you started with.

Plan B: Toys

Drudgery and sameness have brought your partner to the brink of this insanity. Break up the monotony with fun!
One of the most famous symptoms of the mid-life crisis is the fancy sports car. This symptom is destructive to family life because it usually involves a big loan that keeps on soaking up funds long after the temporary insanity has subsided. By the time he realizes how silly he looks in the car it will be too late.
One good way to short-circuit this abberation is to buy your spouse less expensive toys that distract him from what he really wants. Buy him a dirt bike instead of the $10,000 Harley he wants to buy. Get him a video library of sports events, martial arts, or science fiction. Send him on a hunting, fishing, or camping vacation up in the mountains. In this way he can get some of the things he thinks he's missing without sacrificing the family nest egg.
Or you can devise a savings plan that lets him buy the Porche he really wants without overly damaging the family's financial well-being. He is much less likely to bail out or do anything rash if he feels you are on his side.
The advantages of Plan B are (1) you don't have to do anything repugnant and (2) you retain some measure of control over his craziness and the financial damage it could cause.
There are lots of ways on how to cope up things during mid-life crisis. But the bottomline is we are the masters of our actions and choices. Each and everyone has its own freewill to decide whether to turn things into a positive way or to the other way. Life is what we make. The decision and choices is in our hands. Always Live life to the fullest!!

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Love and Sex!!

To those People who are asking as to what is the difference between love and sex, yeah! been asking too as to what really is the difference between the two. Moreover, what are the significance of the two also. Some said you can have sex without love and other said you can have love without sex, is it true? However, it is easier to say that sex is faster to achieve than love. Right? I wonder why people get love and sex so mixed up and broken up inside, because some men can look you in the eyes when they have sex with you but afterwards they just immediately turn thier head and run on the other way. And there are also some women who are doing the same way. Why do people act this way? Is it because they are not ready for any commitment or what?

America, Obama on Stimulus Cash!!

People, streets, different states of america are very busy thinking, structuring economic plans as to how and where to spend wisely the approved bailout of P 787 billion. Some said it

may sound like a nice problem for states — figuring out how to spend the billions in infrastructure funding they'll receive as part of President Barack Obama's economic stimulus plan. But the task is more complicated than it seems, as state officials try to set priorities while managing competing pressures from communities, watchdog groups and federal regulators over how the money is allocated. Actually, in my humble opinion that bailout is really a big amount of money if people in the upper position in government will spend it wisely according to thier plan for the states. In which said that under the plan Obama is expected to sign into law early this week, states will divide $27 billion to build and repair roads and bridges. That is less than half the $64 billion in projects states told the American Association of State Highway and Transportation Officials late last year that they had ready to go. President Obama is obviously doing his best to turn back the economy even if it is almost soaring down. They said that the law also requires that half the money be spent on projects that have been vetted by the federal government and deemed "ready to go" in 120 days, as a way to jolt the economy and create jobs. Well, this is a great law that hopefully be materialize for the good of all the people living in america and so to all the countries trading with america. Obama's bailout would be a great help in all aspects of economy and hoping that through this way economy will boost again though not just a click of an eye but at least it will give us clear picture that eveything will bring back to normal. It would be great! to see that america will return its place as to where it was before because a lot of people are depending america not just american people but other people from all walks of life.

Live Life to the fullest!!

Today, the world is in deep suffering not only the center of trade but the whole alliance that sorrounds in it. Most industries are shutting down that leads to the rising of unemployment rate,homeless, foodshortage to different countries of the world. Life is getting really difficult now adays, we heard and saw different news about life crisis.All of us are dreaming and hoping to live life like before but the question is how could we attain that dreams if all of us will loose our hopes and dreams to continue this journey. We all know for the fact that there is always an end for everything but I am not saying that we are going to put an end to our life without the permission from the One who gave us this amazing life. Killing or committing suicide is not the mere solution for this problems that we are suffering right now. We must think that we have thousands of reasons to live and to continue our life journey. Life is great to live.

Some of these reasons why we need and must survive during the midst of darkness of our life journey are:

Family. It plays an important role for our survival. It gives us strength, courage and hopes for us to stand.Especially, the kids are great impact for us to live beyond crisis. Its them who touch our minds and soul as to why we view life and give our very best to stand after all the falls that we are encountering as of the moment.

Freinds and Love Ones. Those people who will stay in our sides to comfort and of course to listen our dying moments in our lives. They are the one who cheer us up, give us thier meaningfull thoughts and positive views about life that convince us to stand tall after falling in the deepest part of the ocean. Who are willing to listen our nonsense stories and share our exciting moments.

Crisis, is not the end of everything whatever it is, food, financial and other, still we need tolive in order to attain our goal to live life to the fullest.

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Today, the world is in deep suffering not only the center for trade but of course the whole alliance. Shutdown of different companies that lead to rising of unemployment, loosing homes, suffering bulks of debts, this are just some examples of problems that each of us are suffering right now because of world financial crisis.Many of us, ask as to when will it ends, however, there is no definite time as to when are we going to live life like before. There are lots of people from different walks of life who are committing suicide because they think they cannot manage all these things. However, we all know that there is always sunshine after the rain and there is always solutions for everything and giving end to our life without the permission from above is not a bright solution for everything its because we would not know how strong we are if we will resort to this solution. So, just to give some insights as to why we still continue our life beyond this darkness of our journey.

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People now adays are all trying to save for survival. We cater our basic needs first before all those wants in life. But, but clothes are one of the basic needs for survival, right? However, we heard different news in every inch of the world about the closure or the temporarilly shutdown of a certain clothing company because of crisis. From this, we filipinos are doing our best to save money as much as possible too that is why surplus emerged as fast as the wind in the market because it caters not only those class B market but of course to class C too. Which we obviously know that they occupy greater market share compared to class A and B and oww!! the clothes are still very nice to look at so as to wear. Well, just do some sort of cleaning to that surplus clothes then after a couple of hours. One can start with thier amazing days while wearing that surplus dress without the knowledge of anyone because it really looks new and fits well. I myself had an experience on that surplus dress or what we called: Ukay-Ukay. Before I dont really care about such thing because I thought that it will add up our waste in the house but when my friend brought me in the nearby store I did tried to select and then there was one piece of polo shirt that I happened to liked so I didnt think any second thoughts I immediately got the piece and tried. I was really amazed with the price and the quality of that piece so I directly purchased that piece and when I got home I was so happy and told my sisters about that.Well, it was such a great experience for me. After that incident, everytime I want to shop clothes for myself I try to visit surplus store first before I'll purchase some in any boutiques. So, from there we got an idea on to how to save and buy the right things for a very cost efficient way.

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$20 M To Correct Ad Information: Open Thread

Now adays, business establishments creates different marketing strategy just to catch customers attention. One example of these are what we called advertising and for all we know there are many forms of advertisements such as advertising through television wherein a certain product will show while there are other kinds such as radio advertising, billboards, posters and many more. Advertising a certain should abide different rules and regulations and it should be real and correct because advertisers are giving information to the public for that certain product. Right? But there are some cases that mistakes, incorrect cannot be avoided maybe for some reasons. Like, the ads on television about Yaz, the oral contraceptive? Pharmaceutical giant Bayer was ordered to spend $20 million to correct misinformation from previous ads for Yaz.
Ohio Attorney General Richard Cordray and the attorneys general of 26 other states announced an agreement with Bayer.
It says that Bayer must get FDA approval for future Yaz ads.
The agreement resolves claims that Bayer's 2008 marketing of Yaz violated a 2007 multi-state agreement in which Bayer agreed not to make false marketing claims about any of its products.
The earlier agreement settled claims that Bayer failed to disclose serious safety risks in advertisements for the cholesterol drug, Baycol.
The FDA says that Yaz commercials were misleading because they implied that Yaz could be used to treat PMS and certain types of acne, when in fact, Yaz is not approved to treat those conditions. Well, we dont really know where to put the blame for the misleading advertisements its either to Bayer company or to the advertising company. Well, lets just ask any opinion from others as to what they can say about this...

Gold Gift!!

Its amazing and incredible to think how wonderful life is earth is thinking that there are lots of gifts that we have not only those metallic and crystallic things but of course there are also un explainable spot that we cant resist to witness with our blinking sense one of these is the magical waterfalls named as Maria Cristina Falls. It is one of the best water falls in Philippines. It is situated in one island of Mindanao and a landmark of Iligan City, the City also known as the City of Majestic Waterfalls because of its unbelievable waterfalls. It is located 8.5 kilometers away southwest of the city proper. Well-known for its natural beauty and grandeur, the 320-feet high waterfalls is also the primary source of power for the city's industries and the whole Mindanao region. NPC has established its Maria Christina Power Plant at outer foot of the falls. This incredible falls not only served as sceneric spot but of course a source of life too!!. Well, there are still lots of theme but this one is great which I dreamed to visit one of these days of my life. I can't imagine how great my life would be if I would have a chance to view and feel the sprinkles of this amazing gifts!!

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Obama Pushes for Stimulus Plan During News Conference

I read from the news that U.S. President Barack Obama is pushing hard for his economic stimulus plan and hinting of possible future contacts with Iran. Well, thats nice to hear thinking and hoping that conflicts between Iran will finally terminated. I hope so..:(
More over, we can see that he is really trying his best to solve this economic problem as a matter of fact he said this incredible words during his short speech that: I will do whatever it takes to put this economy back on track and put this country back to work,".
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Dakota Fanning in Twilight New Moon

Movies Online caught up today with Dakota Fanning at the Los Angeles Press Day for her new and very exciting thriller, Push that opens in theaters. We asked her if it was true that she was in talks to join Robert Pattinson and the rest of the cast to co-star in the upcoming Twilight sequel, New Moon. I happen to like Dakota a lot. She’s an incredibly talented actress and I think she would be perfect for the role of Jane, the sadistic Volturi vampire said. While contracts have not been signed yet, Dakota was able to confirm for that she is definitely in talks to co-star in New Moon. There is a great possibility that she will accept the role because she is definitely a fan of the actors in the film and she said that to be a part of the upcoming twilight sequel, New Moon the continuation of twilight movie would be really a great privilege for her.

Accenture Laying off 500 workers

MANILA, Philippines – Outsourcing firm Accenture said it is laying off at least 500 workers in the country due to a "redundancy” program. In a statement sent to INQUIRER.net, the company said it is implementing a redundancy program "to balance the skills of its workforce against the demand from its clients”. This affects approximately three percent of its total workforce in the Philippines or approximately 500 out of a total headcount of more than 16,000 employees.
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